Maine & NH Wedding Photographer // How to Plan an Elopement Without Losing Your Mind (or Your Relationship)
Let’s be real: the whole point of eloping is to not get sucked into the soul-sucking chaos of traditional wedding planning, right? No seating charts, no five-tier fondant disasters, and definitely no “We need to invite Aunt Carol because she’ll be mad if she’s not included.” (Sorry, Carol. You’re sweet, but no.)
But here’s the deal — even elopements need some planning. Just enough to make sure you’re not Googling “how to get married in Maine” in a panic at 2 a.m. with a bottle of wine in one hand and your sanity slowly slipping through the other.
That’s where I come in.
Hi, it’s me. Your dark-and-moody elopement photographer.
I’ve helped enough couples do this thing that I can confidently say: you do NOT have to figure this out alone. Let me help you plan the day that actually feels like you.
Here’s What I Can Help You With (So You Can Breathe Again)
1. Location, Location, Breathtaking Freakin’ Location
Maine and New England are packed with places that’ll make your jaw drop.
Want a windswept rocky coastline? Got it.
Want a moody forest with beams of light cutting through the trees? Absolutely.
Want to say your vows on a mountain with 360° views and a breeze that makes your hair do that thing? I KNOW A PLACE.
You don’t have to spend hours scrolling Instagram or Google Maps trying to find a spot that feels private and epic. I’ve already got a list of gems — some popular, some secret AF — that will give you all the dreamy, intimate vibes you’re craving.
2. Vendors Who Get It
No, you don’t need a full wedding vendor army, but a few key players can make your day smoother and way more enjoyable.
I know:
Officiants who specialize in tiny ceremonies and won’t turn your vows into a sermon.
Florists who can whip up an insanely beautiful bouquet that won’t get swallowed by the wind (or wilt by noon).
Hair and makeup artists who will come to you..
I’ve worked with these people. They’re awesome. They’re chill. They’re not going to call you “bridezilla” behind your back because you want to keep things simple.
3. Timeline Wizardry (Yes, Even Elopements Need One)
I’m a photographer, yes. But I’m also a timeline ninja.
Here’s what I can do:
Make sure your ceremony lands in that perfect golden hour glow.
Build in time for private vow exchanges, champagne toasts, and those slow, emotional moments that make your elopement unforgettable.
Keep the day chill but structured enough so you’re not like, “Should we… be doing something right now? Is it time for cake? Do we even have cake?”
I’ll create a flow that makes sense, feels natural, and allows you to be fully present without watching the clock.
This Isn’t Just a “Shoot and Leave” Situation
When you work with me, you’re not just getting someone who shows up, takes pretty photos, and dips. I’m your:
Location scout
Hype person
Bug spray bringer
Timeline planner
Emotional support human
Chaos reducer
Elopements are beautiful in their simplicity, but that doesn’t mean you have to wing the whole thing. Let’s plan a day that’s so chill and so “you two” that you’re laughing through your vows and eating cake off a rock (or hey, no cake at all — I’m not the boss of you).
Let me help you build your dream elopement without losing your damn mind.
We’ll plan it together. I’ll handle the hard stuff. You just show up, say “I do,” and have the best freakin’ day of your life.
Ready? Hit me up and let’s make this happen.
No stress, no pressure, just love — and some killer photos to remember it all by.